Selfies. A word that I never heard growing up. Now, of course, it’s such a popular term that it has found its way into the dictionary like the word “Google” has.
Taking a selfie is something I rarely do. In fact, I really don’t do much with the camera on my phone (or any camera, for that matter). My wife, on the other hand, is quite familiar with her camera and selfies. (I’m glad she is. Otherwise, we would hardly have any pictures of our boys from over the years.)
We were all invited to a wedding yesterday. I may or may not have mentioned in previous conversations that my wife does Daycare work out of the home. One of the moms she watches for was getting married and invited us to the wedding. So, as you can imagine, I’m basically flying blind as I attend this event. I hardly know the mom and certainly don’t know anybody else in attendance. My wife wasn’t too far behind me either. She may have known another person or two, but she was essentially in the same boat as I was. But that was okay. Our boys were with us in the boat as well, so we were content as a family to just float along and enjoy the afternoon.
It’s interesting to watch people you don’t know interact with other people that they obviously do know. Interesting behavior was observed all the way around: An older couple walked in and were greeted by a woman whom they had apparently not seen for a long time. She gave each one of them a peck on the lips as they caught up on human events. A couple of individuals even deemed this celebratory event worthy of bringing an open beer to the wedding ceremony. But none was more entertaining for us than the young woman who sat directly in front of us.
She wore a skirt short enough that my wife was concerned our boys would eventually see something they shouldn’t see as this woman sat in front of us. Then, almost immediately, she pulled out her phone. I thought, Oh no! Here come the selfies! She held it out and slightly up in classic selfie fashion. Her head tilted to one side. She smiled real big (I know, because I could plainly see the selfie screen of her phone as she held it out for all of us to see). Click. (Her head tilts the other direction.) Click. (She and the woman next to her lean in together.) Click.
Then, in what had to be gold medal Olympic selfie speed, her fingers flew all over her on-screen keyboard as she madly texted something. This seemed to be extremely important as it had to go along with the selfies she had just taken. The world of Facebook was waiting!
This happened two or three times from the time we first sat down to the end of the ceremony. At least I can say that I came away from that wedding knowing I was entertained and certainly wasn’t bored!